Sunday, December 7, 2008

SAD END OF A FRIEND


Each one of us in our lives would have gone through touching times, seen incidents, events which leave their imprints in our lives….This is a true incident about a friend of mine who lost his life after being hit by a fast train on track 4 at Kandivali about 5 years back.

Surinder,21, was a normal guy, happy go lucky, fun to be with. We enjoyed his company, playing with his dog and loved to purposely tease him about his Nepali looks to make him angry. Initially they were 4 brothers and 1 sister, until his elder brother drowned in the sea many years back and it was left to him to take care of the family then being the eldest of the remaining siblings.

On that unfortunate day, he was coming back from his coaching classes along with one of his classmate, Rahul. Like many others who cross the railway track, they too decided to take the shorter route not knowing death was waiting for them on the other side of the tracks,not realizing that a fast train was approaching and soon found themselves too close to the train. At that moment both of them went blank unable to decide whether to step back or jump forward to save their lives…..Surinder took half a step back, Rahul took half a step forward but still both found themselves in the path of the oncoming train. Suddenly Rahul held Surinder’s hand, pulled him and jumped forward. Unfortunately, Surinder got hit on the head, his right leg got amputated and he died on the spot whereas Rahul managed to get past the train but the shock of what had just happened was so unbearable that he went into coma. Both were taken to Bhagwati hospital and their respective families were contacted to give them the shocking news. Surinder’s younger brother was called by the police to identify his body and by this time, we all had come to know about the sudden demise of our dear friend.

While the family was in shock seeing his body and we mourned his death, one of our rich friend Kishor and his rich friends (local corporator’s sons) had an idea- To feed dinner to 11 pandits and 100 beggars the next day as our mark of condolence to Surinder and pray for his soul……A bad idea according to me as those guys thought themselves too smart to decide what should be done in such sad time and all that too against the customs and religion.

Next evening, the parking area next to Surinder’s building was cleared, halogens put, carpets spread and a table was laid on which stood a big photograph of our friend with a garland and flowers around while the caterers prepared the dinner in the garages behind. All of our friends, local people from the complex, watchmen, etc had gathered. Many people shed a tear or two and left. By this time, Kishor could manage to get only 7 pandits but not even a single beggar came on knowing that it was offered as a condolence to the dead. The Pandits came, had a small prayer, enjoyed the dinner and went away…

But the food was remaining…that too of a 100 people. Kishor and his friends had spent a lot of money on the caterers and the lighting….Now what is too be done? Should the food be allowed to get wasted? Money go down the drain?.......Of course …..NOT.On hearing their next worst idea,I came back home and stood near my window.

I could see all my friends who had gathered to pay tribute to Surinder eat the remaining dinner that was meant for the beggars……a sad picture I was seeing that had a huge impact on me.

To this day I question the condolence meeting that evening, whether the friends really mourned Surinder’s death or celebrated it with a dinner party? Does anyone of you know the answer?

1 comment:

Aniruddha Agarwal said...

...a very sad ending and a huge loss for the family.

Its not wise to comment on the after-events; in my opinion, there was something hugely amiss. I don't know how the entire stuff was organised by 'friends' n how the mourning family allowed all this to happen.

All rituals done are with some meaning; as far as i know, or have seen, this is something totally out of place.

A tragic ending. A sad story.